What Are the Options for Headstones in a National Cemetery?
Choosing a headstone in a national cemetery is a step filled with respect and care. Families often ask what types are allowed. The U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) and the Department of Defense (DoD) give clear rules. These rules help cemeteries keep a uniform and dignified look.
Standard Choices for Veterans
The VA offers four main types of markers:
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Upright marble headstones
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Flat marble markers
Each style is free for veterans and their dependants. The VA (est. 1930) reports that it provides over 1 million headstones and markers each year.
Example: The Martinez Family
Maria Martinez lost her father, who served in the U.S. Navy. When she visited Arlington Natinal Cemetry, she saw rows of white marble. She chose an upright marble headstone, because it matched her father’s service with honor. She said it gave her peace to know the same marker stood beside others who served.
Inscriptions and Symbols
The VA allows inscriptions like name, rank, branch of service, and years of birth and deth. Families may also request a relgious symbol or emblem of belife. There are over 70 symbols on the approved list.
Rules on Materials and Size
Headstones must meet VA standards. Upright stones are about 42 in. tall, 13 in. wide, and 4 in. thick. Flat markers are about 24 in. by 12 in. The VA uses granite or marble only, as both last for centuries.
Facts from the VA
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The VA covers the full cost of the marker.
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The VA also ships the headstone to the cemetery.
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Families can request help by filling VA Form 40-1330.
Why Uniformity Matters
Uniform headstones help visitors see the site as one place of shared honor. The DoD notes that cemeteries are not just for families, but for the nation. The simple rows show equality in service, from privates to generals.
Options for Spouses and Children
Spouses and children can be buried beside a veteran. They may share the same headstone, with their names engraved on the back. This helps keep the family’s memory together in one place.
Closing Thought
The choice of headstone in a national cemetery is limited, but the meaning is deep. Families like the Martinezes find comfort in the simple, strong design. Each stone marks not only a life, but also a promise kept by the nation.